A Secret For Attracting Women Only The Pros Know...

Important Note: Read this newsletter in its entirety because youre going to learn an attraction secret that less than one percent of the worlds male population knows about!

The other day I was talking to a buddy of mine, a real rock star at attracting women, about, of all things, Bill Gates. We were discussing how Gatess financial problems are vastly different from the average person. Bill spends his days fretting over ways to either make more money or sustain the money he has, while most people concern themselves with making money in the first place. The man lives in a completely different reality from most of us. As we were chatting about Mr. Microsoft, something dawned on us...

When it comes to succeeding with women, we realized, we live in a very different reality from most men. In our reality, generating attraction in women is as easy as taking a crap - little effort, yet feels great! The skills and tools for generating attraction are so ingrained in us that when interacting with gorgeous women, theres not even an iota of hemming and hawing over how to attract them. Our focus, instead, is on: using the attraction we already know we can generate in them to get our intended outcome. If theres a woman were interested in, for example, we dont stand there stiff and stupefied, like a dear caught in headlights, wondering: "How in the world are we going to attract her" We know, if we just chat with her for a few minutes, its inevitable that shell feel attraction toward us. Thats why our focus is entirely on, even if we havent yet said a word to her, using the attraction we already know we can generate in her to get our intended outcome.

But this isnt the reality of most men. "What to do in the wake of a woman feeling attraction toward you" is a thought never crossing the minds of many a man - and rightfully so...because most cant even generate attraction inside women in the first place.

A few nights ago, for example, I was at a little bar down the street from my house. My friend and I watched a forty-something year-old distinguished looking business man play the big passive bottom to the verbal gang bang of two twenty-one year old looking, sponge-brained rhymes-with-witches. The poor bastard attempted to attract these women the only ways he knew how: buying them drinks, giving them lots of compliments, and, worst of all, asking them if they thought his clothes are cool. Funny enough, the more he did these things, the crueler the girls acted toward him. This man was a walking, talking attraction death sentence.

Can you relate Have you ever felt, every attempt to attract a woman was actually turning her off Or have you experienced the frustration of trying to figure out why a woman was more attracted to your friend than you Or maybe youve brooded: Attracting women is as difficult as a blind man trying to find a bobby pin on an open football field. I dunno

Each scenario represents the reality of not knowing how to attract women. A reality I personally overstayed my welcome. I, however, have moved far away from this reality and now reside in a place where attracting women is cake.

Im going to share something with you only known, for the most part, by people living in a reality where attracting women is as easy as turning on a light switch. This is something I dont think Ive ever talked about in a newsletter...and might never again. If youve read my book, youll know what this is. If youve gone out and experimented with it, theres a good chance you understand the power behind it.

Before I get into this Im going to review some attraction basics.

Realize this: Most women march through life to the rhythms of some drum most men will never hear. My job is to get you to hear those rhythms, so, you can start experiencing massive success with women. Attraction is neither how a woman judges you nor what she prefers. Women prefer men who are tall and dark and lumbered with boa constrictor sized wieners. Think of the guys featured in Calvin Klein, Guess, and Abercrombie catalogues. Thats what women prefer! This probably isnt you, and certainly isnt me. But thats okay...because...the men women prefer and the men they feel attraction for are as similar as apples are to oranges. Attraction has very little to with preference. Attraction, instead, is the emotion of a woman wanting and reaching and chasing for more of a man.

This is why you hear many a woman talking about her experiences of feeling attraction toward men whom she finds ugly or as not filling the quota for what she considers to be her type. When youve mastered the mechanisms behind generating attraction, what a woman physically thinks of you will be the least of your concerns.

One of the most effective ways Ive found for generating massive amounts of attraction in women, emotionally compelling them to want and reach and chase for more of you, is what I call "Tension Loops." The best part of using Tension Loops is that they generate heaps of attraction in women...regardless of your current looks, social status, or bank account.

A Tension Loop is when you do something to create unresolved emotional tension inside a woman, increase it, release it by bringing closure to it, and then spark it all over again. This will keep her feeling the emotion of wanting and reaching and chasing for more of you.

Soap opera writers use Tension Loops to keep women enraptured in their fictitious dramas for months - sometimes years! The structure is always the same. The soap starts off with some form of conflict or drama, sparking unresolved emotional tension. Emotional tension increases up until the point of the climax. The tension, then, is released by bringing some resolution to the conflict or drama. And, finally, the show ends by sparking the tension all over again, compelling women to tune in for next weeks show.

Mastering the Tension Loop will give you the kind of power over women that, at first, might scare you. But if youre thinking that this is what I wanted to share with you, youre wrong.

So keep reading...

In a minute, youre going to learn a special type of Tension Loop I call "Push/Pull." If you arent comfortable with the idea of having the power to generate attraction inside the women you desire, regardless of what they think of you, you might want to stop reading now!

What Im about to reveal is Jedi mind *shit*. Were talking Yoda power! And you dont have to become Darth Vader to reap the benefits of Push/Pull. Every guy Ive come into contact with, who is good with women, uses some form of Push/Pull.

Push/Pull is whenever you emotionally push a woman away from you...and, then, emotionally pull her back in. Each Push creates an emotional space for each Pull. To get a sense of what Im getting at, think, for example, of your favorite junk food. What if you went on a strict diet for several weeks, depriving yourself of giving in to your urge to eat your favorite food What would it be like to finally give in to your urge and indulge Im willing to bet it would be more intense than if you hadnt gone on your strict diet, yes

Many women are natural Push/Pull artists. Over the years Ive heard dozens of stories from hapless men about women using Push/Pull to pick them up by the scruff of their proverbial neck, slamming their bodies with back-and-forth and side-to-side motions into the ground. My all time favorite story is the one about the gorgeous girl sleeping with a guy and then, after sex, putting his ego on steroids by telling him, "Youre the best lover Ive ever had." Things, then, alas, take a self-esteem crushing turn for the worse when she undermines her praise with: "Actually, youre the fourth best lover Ive ever had." The poor bastard is crushed and he is, as if he were a little worker bee, struggling to move up to the number three slot.

We can use these psychological mechanisms without being an A-hole or a Jerk. The key is to make it playful and funny. Your intention should never be to hurt a woman. Your goal is to only mess with her a bit. Do this and women will find you charming and attractive.

Heres an example of Push/Pull Ive used probably over a thousand times...

At some point while interacting with a woman I might take her hand and praise, "You have the most amazing smile Ive seen tonight...It makes me feel so happy inside!" Shell usually respond with, "Thank you!" Then Ill count the fingers on my other hand and say, "You know what: actually there were four other girls with really amazing smiles tonight as well. Out of them, you have the fourth best smile. Im going to call you number four." And then Ill push away her hand. More often than not, women demand, "No!!! I want to be number one!" Ill usually retort with, "Alright, Ill promote you to number three for being feisty."

Do women find this derisive and mean Not at all Note: once in while youll encounter a psychologically damaged woman who doesnt think this is cute. She is the exception and not the rule. My advice: run away from these types of women, quickly. Most women find this funny, charming, and playful. More importantly, it generates attraction: the emotion of wanting and reaching and chasing for more of you.

Push/Pull is the crème de la crème of attraction tools. Master Push/Pull and youll leave women no choice but to feel attraction toward you...even if theyre repulsed by your physical appearance. Realize that this is a newsletter and Im only scratching the surface of Push/Pull. In my book, youll learn six types of Push/Pull: Intentional Undermining, Guilty Conscience, Emotional Rollercoaster, Revealing & Concealing, and Good Cop/ Bad Cop. Youll discover body language techniques for using Push/Pull and read about a powerful Push/Pull secret for getting physical with a woman...even if she tells you, shes not attracted to you. My book is the only place on the planet where youll learn about Push/Pull. This, however, only scratches the surface of what youll gain from my attraction guide. Its a complete education on attracting women, giving you the tools to transform yourself into the kind of man women feel attraction toward. Just think what it will be like to finally have the skills and confidence to plop your butt in the drivers seat while interacting with women, giving you the power and choice to take your interactions with them in the direction you want. Start getting this area of your life taken care of right now by downloading my book.

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